Yes, it's about me again
Two weeks before Christmas I had a clash with Major or
should I say a crash. Yes, that lovable
Eeyore character that doesn’t like to move too fast, literally gave me a run
that would have lit the forest on fire.
I had about an hour to get a quick ride in before my
son’s home school class was finished. Having
not ridden for about three weeks, I was feeling some pressure to exercise the
horses. Once Major, our Appaloosa pony, was saddled I took
him into the arena, walked around once and got on. No pre-flight exercises were done, like
moving his back legs or backing him up to see if he was listening to me. Heck, I’ve been riding him all summer, two,
three times a week, we’re well trained buddies.
As we trotted around the arena, he gave a little buck. I figured he was feeling fresh, so I didn’t give it another thought. The students in my son's home school class could see
the arena from the window. Not
wanting to distract them, I decided to go into the woods behind the house. Off we went and all was going well; a little
walking, a little trotting- Yahoo! The
path we took lead to an open field. There we stopped and listened. It was a beautiful day, very little wind, and
peaceful.
In the clearing
It was still hunting season and Major seemed to have a
heighted awareness. His ears were straight up and listening. I decided to turn around and head back to the
arena.
Coming back
We always walk back. It’s the rule, but the minute I turned his
nose he tried to bolt. “Damn,” I thought.
I quickly slid my right hand down the rein and pulled his nose to my
knee. He spun around in a half circle
and stopped. “Good boy,” I said, as I
gave him a pat. I relaxed my body, sat
back into the saddle and commanded, “Walk on.”
I’m not sure saying anything with authority matters to a horse, but it gave
me courage. Major wanted none of it. I didn’t know if we were trotting, jigging or
cantering, but it occurred to me he wasn’t listening to any of my cues and it
would be wise to get off. But I didn’t, I stayed on and managed to slow
him down by see-sawing the reins back and forth. That’s when he got mad and decided to get
this monkey (me) off his back. With ears pinned, I could feel the tension building
in his muscles. The last thing I saw was Major’s
head curling down.
frightened Major
“Get up,” my son said as he helped me get to my
feet. He told me he saw Major flying back to the
barn alone and knew something was wrong.
Once he was satisfied I was moving relatively
well, he went to make sure the horse was ok.
I stumbled my way out of the woods, sat down outside the barn to get my
vision back. I took my helmet off and was amazed as it came
apart in my hands. “What happened,” I
thought, and thank god I always wear a helmet.
Major getting the monkey off
In the house, I
assessed my condition. My body felt
fine. Nothing broken and nothing
pulled. My vision was back, but my head
ached, I felt queasy, and embarrassed my horse had gone barn sour and the home
school group saw the outcome.
My initial reaction was, “I’m so done with this horse!” I’m sick of his personality and pony
mentality. I’m also finished with
riding. How many more falls before they
carry me out on a stretcher. I’m playing
Russian roulette and don’t like the odds.
I need to find a safer sport.
It’s been a
month since the fall and it’s taken me time to recover from feeling angry at
Major and disappointed with myself. I took
Major’s behavior as a personal insult.
I’ve worked years with him on the ground and in the saddle. We were passed all this running back to the barn stuff. Wrong. Major was following his horse instincts. He perceived danger and took charge by high tailing it back to the barn. Horses don’t do anything personally to anyone.
Barn sour can happen to any horse; the underlining issue is trust. He did not see me as the leader to guide him out of danger. If I got him using his thinking brain instead of his reacting brain by doing some groundwork, would the situation have turned out differently? I don’t know. For now, I’m back to basics with him, building trust, and hopefully, in the future, riding into the woods without
bolting back.